My mom has dementia, and I live thousands of miles away. My four siblings all live much closer, and can visit her monthly for two of them, weekly for another, and my brother Steve, who she asked to take on power of attorney and health care power of attorney, is our go-to for all things that concern mom's care and finances. She lives in an assisted living center, and sooner than later, will need to move into memory care. Because I can only speak to Mom on the phone, and because she is more and ...