3rd kiddo, but finally tried Nursing Queen for this baby. Just got this sweater, but I've been wearing the sweatheart camel sweater a ton. I have the XL for my sweater, and then got 2 shirts in L (I'm between sizes, so wanted to try both). The L fit, but are snug over the boob, so less coverage while nursing. I preferred the extra fabric of the XL to tuck around during nursing for modesty. I'm glad I went for XL for my next purchase that included this sweater, because the fit is just what I like...