The material is as soft as butter and I could tell the cups size would be perfect, but the back strap was WAY too small for my back. Even with the back extender that was included, my back fat was squeezing out and over the strap. I’m not a very large person, so that surprised me. I waited a long time to receive it, so I didn’t want to send it back. I had to give it to a smaller friend, so I can’t give a true review AFTER wearing it. You’d definitely want to size up a little regarding your back...